Hello, everyone! RJ Writing Ink here with another first impression for a new anime I’m considering watching. So, have you ever heard how Spike Spiegel once said “I love a woman who can kick my ass?” He’s not wrong; a lot of people like strong women who can stand up for themselves. Well, what if there were an entire culture of warriors whose romantic preference was strong women? Now put that into a medieval fantasy setting, have the female protagonist be a badass knight, and the male be an uber-powerful barbarian warrior in love with her. Then you would have this new anime I just found, The Barbarian’s Bride. The first episode is out, but this one clip of it on Crunchyroll’s YouTube channel was enough to get me interested.

A Lady Knight Meet Cute

Meet Seraphina de Lavillant, a 26-year-old knight from the Illdoren Kingdom and leader of the Eastern Expeditionary Force. For centuries, her kingdom has waged war against the “barbarians” of the east for all the usual reasons people fight: land, resources, and seeing the easterners as savages. But then the day comes when Sera finds herself in combat against one of the enemy’s leaders, Veor. And despite managing to hold her own against him for a time, eventually her sword breaks during their clash, spelling her ultimate defeat. And while she bought enough time for most of her forces to get away, Sera is taken captive by the Easterners.

The premiere episode opens up right in the middle of Sera’s plight as she finds herself in a cell in the Easterners territory. And she fully expects that they will torture her, sacrifice her, violate her, or some horrible combination of all three. But she decides that she will remain defiant to the end and not give them the satisfaction of begging for mercy. What she wasn’t prepared for was learning the reason why she was brought back. It wasn’t to kill her or violate her dignity like she thought; it was because Veor wanted to…marry her!

As I bluntly commented in the above video, Veor’s entire culture basically simps for badass warrior maidens. They like strong women who can hold their own in a fight, and this makes sense, when you think about it. The land they call home is full of all sorts of dangers, so they need to be strong in order to survive. That holds true in real life, as well. When you live in a tough environment, you have to be either tough or smart in order to survive, and you see those qualities in a partner as a positive trait. So, for centuries, the men of Veor’s people have married the strongest women they can find; it just so happens that they tend to be the ones who were trying to kill them at first. And when Veor clashed with Sera, he basically fell for her then and there. So he followed the traditions of his people.

They’ve at least got good taste. And, judging by the thousands of likes my comment got, plenty of people are thinking the same thing. Like Spike Spiegel once said, men like a woman who can kick their asses.

Read the Manga. It’s Actually Nicer than you Think!

Now, as a modern audience, there are undoubtedly people who look at this series and have some serious ethical concerns with it. Taking someone captive to marry them is frowned upon by a lot of people. Not to mention the idea that said captives potentially falling in love with them could be seen as Stockholm Syndrome. They’re not wrong; it does raise some eyebrows. I would like to point out three things, though. Firstly, Veor’s culture is wholly different from ours, and it’s technically unfair of us to judge it by our own morals and ethics. Secondly, despite looking like a brute, Veor manages to subvert the stereotypical barbarian warrior. Despite it being well within his power to take her by force, Veor is nothing but a gentleman toward Seraphina. He treats her with the respect he would give a fellow warrior and equal and refuses to do anything without her consent. Which segues into my third and final point: Seraphina is treated better by Veor than she ever was by her own people.

As this first episode reveals to us through flashbacks, Seraphina’s home of Illdoren is a pretty awful place. Most of the common folk suffer from poverty and famine. We even see a poor man starving on the streets. Meanwhile, the upper crust is living in mansions and gorging themselves on the best food, overly fancy outfits, and caring more about gossip than helping those they’re supposed to look after. Not to mention how their entire society is incredibly sexist. Female knights are not uncommon, but Sera was still made fun of for something that her people largely see as a man’s role. For instance, there was the time when she became the First Knight and leader of the Eastern Expeditionary Force. She went back to her brother filled with pride at what she’d done. Instead, he chose to berate her for turning down multiple marriage proposals to keep playing knight, and that she should quit now that she’s at the top. Completely ignoring her accomplishments!

I understand that there’s the idea of being loyal to your country even when it’s not loyal to you. However, at some point, you have to question whether or not said country even deserves your loyalty. Now compare that to Veor’s people, who will not look down on her for being a woman and recognize her badassery for what it is: something to respect. I don’t know about you, but if I had to make a choice between a home that doesn’t respect and appreciate me for who I am and a place that does, I’d choose the place that does.

I know that Barbarian’s Bride is not going to be for everyone, and that’s understandable. Not everyone is going to be into these kinds of stories. But I’m the kind of person who likes people from different cultures getting along. You’d be surprised at how much more in common we all have with each other. So I wound up reading the manga, and found that it doesn’t take long for Seraphina to grow accustomed to this new land. She’s happier here than she ever was back home, and the more she gets to know Veor, the more she realizes that the stories she was told about his people were inaccurate. That, and when he ditches the beard, Veor is very much her type, to her initial dismay. For bonus points, Veor is only 18.

That’s right, Veor is only 18, can grow an impressive beard, and is making an older woman fall for him. Impressive game!